I want to get to the root of what seems to be troubling you: the fear that your boyfriend isn't sexually attracted to you, which-though I hate to say it-sounds like a more likely explanation for his behavior than him secretly being gay. The rejection would be a lot less painful. I know it would be a relief if he were exclusively into dudes, because you wouldn't have to contend with the possibility that he's into women, but not you. Without knowing your boyfriend, I can't say for certain whether or not he's gay. If he was gay, I’d understand why he didn’t want to have sex with me. Is there a way I could ask him without sounding judgmental?Īlso, I’m now wondering if he’s gay, and maybe that’s why he’s hesitating to go further? He once told me he knew someone who had made love to women all over the world, and sometimes that guy would have sex with men, too. He has introduced me to some of his coworkers, saying, “Would you believe she's 74?” I don't know if he's daring himself to be with me. We text every day and see each other multiple times a week.
He’s amorous and caring, and we always have a great time together. We've become intimate in some ways, but not all the way. Over the past three months, we've become much closer, and the chemistry is definitely there. I will admit, I do look damn good for my age. He asked for my number, and I gave it to him.
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